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Originally Posted by upstatedoc
BM=bowel movement
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spoken like a doc
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Originally Posted by Nkc
LOL and the GAY part got your attention
Have you thought about why you're pissed all the time? I'm sure everyone gets pissed at different stuff but just gotta learn to live and let live. I've given up on trying to make changes to things that shouldn't even affect me. Sometimes it is what it is and that goes for the people in your life too. I stopped comparing myself with other people and just began searching for what I wanted in life. When people say, "hey you should be happy because you have this and that" my answer is always "hey I think you're right, I am pretty damn happy actually, thanks for reminding me." Whatever happens, I always tell myself that I've been thru worse. There's always someone in a worse situation than you.
To be honest, 5 years ago I was miserable. I was working a job in a trading company where I had no place to advance. I made a promise to my gf (now wife) that we'd go to HK, test things out for 3 years and leave if things didn't pan out. I was seriously making $7500hkd a month (~$1k usd) and I was broke, dead broke. My hopes and dreams were dying and its hard to take a moment to enjoy anything when life's like that. Everything I did was miserable to a point where I made my gf miserable too for constantly bitching about us coming to HK in the first place. I was pissed at everything that was happening because I kept comparing myself to my peers. When I stopped doing that, I found myself and went on a straight path to achieving things that I personally liked/wanted. Ultimately, my goal was to be able to get married, have kids and be able to retire before they would have to go to elementary school in HK. I'd hate for them to go to school here. We would all move back to Vancouver and my kid(s) would be able to experience things that their parents were fortunate to experience in Van.
Dude, HK is a miserable place. I live in YL and I try my best to stay away for the hustle and bustle life of HK. Maybe we should grab a drink sometime and talk about the things that piss you off.  |
I think part of the reason why I'm pissed is because my parents are sadist. They claim to operate from morality but without empathy - thus acceptance of them is impossible without first refuting their argument of representing the greater morality.
They are partial respectively to each of my siblings - as the middle child I guess they decided to try the 'tough love' approach but without warmth - hence the psychopath in front of you today.
I don't care if people are better or worse off then me - yeah I think for me it's just when ppl try to make me unhappy for no reason - it echoes because it must be what my parents do to me. Thanks for the therapy, doc
Yeah, I see how my brother has to start applying for everything now at birth.. i wonder how they are going to afford 3+kids they say they want.. or even if they will just stop after the next one cuz it's so hard..
That's a good plan.. HK really is no place to raise a child.
I was in the playroom and this 4yr old boy is throwing bricks at my 1.5yr niece, so I scold him after the 2nd time. Then he comes along later with his friend, I stare him down with my man face.. he looks at his meaner friend, who says to me "What are you smiling at?" .. thankfully I came up with a good response: "What are YOU smiling at?" .. OMG 4yrs old.. can you believe it? not even scared.. and challenging me to ask me what MY problem is? I should have checked out what kind of psychopath mom encourage the child to be this way... Jesus Christ.
Sure, we could always meet up sometime since we're in the same city..