@dbs600: I assume you are talking about the outside handle? If so, all my doors seem to work the same way, in fact they are so sensitive that the other day I was walking by the car and my leather jacket brushed up against the door handle (with the key fob in the pocket) and the car unlocked itself... I was like ... what the heck ? then I realized that my jacket had brushed up against the car
@socal mom: You can program the unlock all doors feature in the iDrive option menu (somewhere in the settings screen), if you want all doors or just the driver door unlocked if you use the remote.