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Originally Posted by TheAxiom
Just focusing on my hobbies now and doing my thing. It's difficult because I'm the "Always win" type and I realize this is something that will take a while for me to end out on top.
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It's important to be sad too. You don't have to fear being sad, crying, etc.
All of the phases happen eventually, and you should embrace and understand it's all normal and part of the process.
You'll eventually only remember the good stuff and think it was wonderful before. That's a trick.
Focus on your thing, make plans for the future. Whenever you can rationalize, always remember this is a phase, and it will get better. Naturally you'll feel better later.
These times are tough, but because people usually focus on their own thing while facing them, you'll be amazed at how improved you're gonna be (physically, mentally, financially etc.) after the sad phase passes.