Dating: Coming on too strong?

[ASBSECU E93]

Originally Posted by MrPrena

Sara, there is no shame in wanting more than $51k/yr. You tend to be extremely straight forward [at least] online forum.
Well, even people with lots of money does fall off the tree once in a while. I think you should see the guys' will power, and how fast he stands up from the ground rather than how much he has.

YEP^ Listen to that lyric from Golddigger..."today he's on fries..."

I've seen some guy who lost about $2m around decade ago (2m decade ago is worth way more than 2m now) went on drinking rampage for about 4 years. Wife was too proud to get a job, and they divorced.

I lost and gained in my past. I would admit. We on some days, and we on other days. It is life. Now, I don't care if someone literally have $500 on his/her account or $5m. I see the potential of how fast he/she can turn $500 into 500m.

I can relate

I watch the hell outta those stocks now...BELIEVE THAT!

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Sara504

I'm assuming NorCal and SoCal?


So a whale is just a man who does well then? Nothing to do with being large?

:

I'm burnt.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by grimlock

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0364828/

Don't tell me you hadn't reach puberty yet..


the 'whales' are the high rollers that bet a lot at the casino

Oooohh. I see.


No, I've never seen that show. I'm lame I do not watch a lot of TV at all :/ and when I do it's the news

[Sara]

Originally Posted by grimlock

:bellyrol l::si gh:

I'm burnt.

I don't know these internet analogies

[MrPrena]

Originally Posted by Sara504

I'm assuming NorCal and SoCal?


So a whale is just a man who does well then? Nothing to do with being large?

Does well? No, does REALLY REALLY WELL that your 6 generations do not need to worry about money.

Being large? I mean some billionaires are anorexic as hell, and some are obese. If I am hunting for a whale, I am not going to worry about sperm whale being mal-nourished or over-nourished.

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Sara504

I don't know these internet analogies

Just meant I found your comment funny.

[MrPrena]

Originally Posted by ASBSECU E93

I can relate

I watch the hell outta those stocks now...BELIEVE THAT!

Did you see the news? Costolo out. Stock up, lol

Originally Posted by Sara504

I'm assuming NorCal and SoCal?


So a whale is just a man who does well then? Nothing to do with being large?

Yes mamm. S,CA= Southern CA (especially Tri-county of LA area).
N.CA= SF to SJ ish

[Sara]

Originally Posted by MrPrena

Does well? No, does REALLY REALLY WELL that your 6 generations do not need to worry about money.

Being large? I mean some billionaires are anorexic as hell, and some are obese. If I am hunting for a whale, I am not going to worry about sperm whale being mal-nourished or over-nourished.

So you would marry someone you're not attracted to as long as she was a whale? That's awful. That's a very unhappy life.

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by MrPrena

Does well? No, does REALLY REALLY WELL that your 6 generations do not need to worry about money.

Being large? I mean some billionaires are anorexic as hell, and some are obese. If I am hunting for a whale, I am not going to worry about sperm whale being mal-nourished or over-nourished.

for some reason I thought she was talking about dick.. now I see I was assuming

[Dattebayo]

This post is starting to sound like source material for Kanye West's next song. What ever happened to just loving someone and living a rewarding and quality life. I live in SoCal and it certainly takes more money to do so here, but one doesn't need to be a multi-millionaire to enjoy life.

[SheaButter]

Originally Posted by Sara504

Jesus, since when is $25k considered middle class.


You're right Prena.

Lolololol! Idk how anybody survives on $25k, it's def not middle class. (And yes I know you know this) just sorta funny when you think of how fast 25k is spent.

On a lighter note, I love peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, and whenever any1 calls me out, I just say I can't afford anything else, lol! So maybe 25k could be middle class if all you eat is pb&j?

[Benedict1957]

Originally Posted by Mr.SugarSkulls

Hahaha dude, that's me. She got it from my Instagram.

There's no pretending to the level of my success.
Conclusion- Y'all are a bunch of haters.

If you're as financially successful as you claim you are, this shouldn't matter to you. For you this should be nothing but white noise from the jealous peasantry. Millionaires don't care about how others perceive their fashion sense, because they know they can buy anything the people making "fun" of them deem acceptable 10 times over, so their insults are neither here nor there.

[MrPrena]

Originally Posted by Sara504

So you would marry someone you're not attracted to as long as she was a whale? That's awful. That's a very unhappy life.

I am already married to an avg person. Attracted to as physical or emotional or mentally?

Physical can be changed. 6'0 100lbs can just do light exercise and increase energy(calorie) intake to get to whatever he or wife wants.
6'0 250lbs can just do light exercise and decrease energy intake to get whatever he or wife wants.

Emotional people can be changed as well. (non-scientific views with no random samples. Bimmerpost Psychologist and Psychiatrist can just relax...)
If someone is too emotional , this guy just need to ton down on sad dramas type of movies?
no emotions? maybe he needs to watch more sad chick flicks.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by MrPrena

Does well? No, does REALLY REALLY WELL that your 6 generations do not need to worry about money.

Being large? I mean some billionaires are anorexic as hell, and some are obese. If I am hunting for a whale, I am not going to worry about sperm whale being mal-nourished or over-nourished.

Originally Posted by MrPrena

I am already married to an avg person. Attracted to as physical or emotional or mentally?

Physical can be changed. 6'0 100lbs can just do light exercise and increase energy(calorie) intake to get to whatever he or wife wants.
6'0 250lbs can just do light exercise and decrease energy intake to get whatever he or wife wants.

Emotional people can be changed as well. (non-scientific views with no random samples. Bimmerpost Psychologist and Psychiatrist can just relax...)
If someone is too emotional , this guy just need to ton down on sad dramas type of movies?
no emotions? maybe he needs to watch more sad chick flicks.

She would need to have balance in all 3 areas. She needs to be beautiful in your eyes, emotionally stable to your terms, as well as intelligent. Your wife has all three right?

[MrPrena]

Originally Posted by Sara504

She would need to have balance in all 3 areas. She needs to be beautiful in your eyes, emotionally stable to your terms, as well as intelligent. Your wife has all three right?

-She is honest. I can trust her.
-She isn't some kinda research scientist, but her stock picks and 401k contribution % increase has been far better than my retirement.
-She is about inch taller than you and wears about same size. No cosmetic surgery investment (which is a huge plus).
-She can put up with my crap.
-When I am hurt, she help me (or does 100%) of mowing the lawn, and plow snow.
-I met her when I was dirt poor.
-She doesn't care she drives $3000 Avalon or $120k Nissan, she is happy either way.
-Not materialistic at all. She haven't bought a new clothes this year, but she did receive some as a gift from friends and family.

She is more realistic than I am. I am the one talk about better house, better car, better business expansion, and more more more....

I am glad that I didn't get a "Dream to Earth" wake up slap yet!

[Sara]

Originally Posted by MrPrena

-She is honest. I can trust her.
-She isn't some kinda research scientist, but her stock picks and 401k contribution % increase has been far better than my retirement.
-She is about inch taller than you and wears about same size. No cosmetic surgery investment (which is a huge plus).
-She can put up with my crap.
-When I am hurt, she help me (or does 100%) of mowing the lawn, and plow snow.
-I met her when I was dirt poor.
-She doesn't care she drives $3000 Avalon or $120k Nissan, she is happy either way.
-Not materialistic at all. She haven't bought a new clothes this year, but she did receive some as a gift from friends and family.

She is more realistic than I am. I am the one talk about better house, better car, better business expansion, and more more more....

I am glad that I didn't get a "Dream to Earth" wake up slap yet!

She sounds nice

[BayMoWe335]

Originally Posted by Mr.SugarSkulls

Again, thanks (I'm the man who wore the suit/IG she took it from).

Considering what I do for a living, I never claimed to be a style guru. I was meeting with some Sony big wigs in London so I had to buy a suit for the occasion.

As far as the tie goes- you must know more than the stylist over at Hugo boss (full suit came as worn). I'll take their advice over yours, especially for a nonformal, business casual meeting in regards to producing for one of their artists.

Lastly- it was only a photo. The coat was off the whole time- so it wasn't like I was walking around London with both buttons buttoned up.

Life lesson- when you're a good looking successful young individual like myself- women don't really care what you wear.
As arrogant and douchey as that sounds, accept it and move on.

FYI- I don't wear suits daily weekly or any of that shit. I record in jeans and a tank top. But I guess in your eyes- that must mean I'm a bum and unsuccessful too- right?

Sorry, bro...I was not trying to disrespect you. I thought she just posted some random pic of a dude. I'm sure you're aware you're not a fashionista and not trying to be.

If you are, I didn't mean anything by it...just stating my opinion, not worth much.

[MrPrena]

Originally Posted by Sara504

She sounds nice

Prior to meeting her, I've been on serious relationship with 2 pharmacist (Western and UCSF grad), 1 MD (UNT grad), 2 med scientist 1 major corp, one russel2000 level corp).
I went really close to going "ring" serious with Western girl, and UNT girl, but Western girl was showing little symptom of gold digger. UNT girl had too much "victim mentality."
I still thank all the girls for putting up with loser like me. I am not trying to be humble, but I was extremely surprised that poor, unshaped, short, ugly, no family wealth, nor have decent size of number on my account can do this well on a date.

I found out fast that long term commitment priority is totally different than my dating priorities.

I see it this way. I will use car analogy since it is a car forum.
It would be really nice to have an expensive/high attention grabber/expensive/exotic Ferrari FXX as a daily driver, but it won't be suitable to drive that on snowy blizzard days nor transport entire family with.
IF i can ONLY have one vehicle, I might have to choose a van over Ferrari FXX.

[Billup]

Originally Posted by Sara504

She sounds nice

She sounds like the opposite of you. You should be more like her.

[choicez]

http://demotivationalpost.com/demoti...his-thread.jpg

[ASBSECU E93]

[QUOTE=MrPrena;18073714]Did you see the news? Costolo out. Stock up, lol
/QUOTE]

the smallest ripple is big movement...mine were not up today

[MrPrena]

You would be surprised when you go into her old room (at in-laws house). I commented to my in-laws that it looks like a princess room. My mother-in-law said "lots of people comments the same, when they see her room."

Living like princess to mowing the lawn on a rainy day together. It was right after her long day at work.

Watching by our peer group and kid's school mom's , they might say:
"Yuck! I am not going to mow the lawn. I am going to hire someone with my husband's [hard earned] wage."
"I don't got no time for that. I got yoga, gym, girl-chat at local Starbucks, shopping at high scale mall to buy LVMH purse, and Tiffany and Co."
"Lawn mowing is for peasants."

My next door neighbor is a franchise owner of Outback, and they have some $$. I see owner of Outback Steak House doing the lawn work too.