Ex-girlfriend

BMW_E90 · 05-14-2007, 01:43 PM

mhmm mhmm chaka mhmm mhmm chaka~

18LLC · 05-14-2007, 01:46 PM

you used the word, "ex", you should know what it means.

ATG · 05-14-2007, 01:47 PM

Just try to keep your mind off this thing somehow. Get busy!! Find new hobby. Try skydiving. I don't know, something ... It's hard to believe now, but a year from now you will be remembering all of this like a bad dream. The key is to move on, don't dwell on the past -- it's gone.

scottwww · 05-14-2007, 02:13 PM

After you reeled that fish in, it didn't measure up, so you threw it back in the lake. Since then, somebody else who was fishing reeled it in. He hasn't decided whether to throw it back or not.

Let it go! If you're still fishing, then use the right bait and don't sweat the small stuff.

txusa03 · 05-14-2007, 02:16 PM

that is why there is no such thing as friends. How many time do I have to preach to ya'll this message.

NaTuReB0Y · 05-14-2007, 02:37 PM

let me get this straight.......

1. you dumped her......
2. she hooked up with a chick
3. then she hooked up with a "friend" of yours

she reminded me of "MJ" from Spiderman..........freakin' SLUT!

that slut went through 10 different guys in 3 movies..............

*WALK AWAY* not worth crying about it.........

BMW_E90 · 05-14-2007, 02:37 PM

thanx guys i already feel better. you guys rock

BMW_E90 · 05-14-2007, 02:39 PM

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Originally Posted by scottwww

After you reeled that fish in, it didn't measure up, so you threw it back in the lake. Since then, somebody else who was fishing reeled it in. He hasn't decided whether to throw it back or not.

Let it go! If you're still fishing, then use the right bait and don't sweat the small stuff.

damn your so right. so do i become friends with the ex and the "friend" or not?

scottwww · 05-14-2007, 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted by BMW_E90

damn your so right. so do i become friends with the ex and the "friend" or not?

If you can be, then yes. If it hurts, then no.

Your next girlfriend might not like you keeping an ex around. When that happens, the new girlfriend should win.

Maybe your next girl will come from your ex's friends or your friends friends. They see that you can roll with the punches, and they are attracted to that. When one of their friends asks about you, they can say, "nice guy" rather than "obsessive creep."

noodles · 05-14-2007, 02:53 PM

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damn your so right. so do i become friends with the ex and the "friend" or not?

Look there are roughly 6.595 BILLION people on this earth - subtracting out the guys, mudducks, and over 40 under 18 crowd that still leaves about 591 million girls.....from that if you only think 1 out of 500 is to your liking..that leaves at least 1.2 mil girls out there that are for you .....take some advice from someone who has been around the block....there are 2 rules for a guys to be happy in life.....

1) Most important.....never ever EVER get married until you are ready to have kids

2) If you are half way decent looking and under 30 try your darndest to not get too involved with just one girl....if it happens then it was meant to be, just make sure you are following rule 1....

GODSPEED MAN

Max_! · 05-14-2007, 03:10 PM

> I hear that she was seeing another girl

I'll be in my bunk...

Fartpimpson · 05-14-2007, 03:16 PM

I am sure your bimmer would never do this to you. So you should know where to spend your time and focus.

ChadE · 05-14-2007, 03:33 PM

I didnt read the whole thing but from now on when you start a thread saying "ex girlfriend" be sure and put with it "no pics" so i dont click on it. I was hoping for some revenge pics.

thedean786 · 05-14-2007, 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by txusa03

that is why there is no such thing as friends. How many time do I have to preach to ya'll this message.

AMEN.

BMW_E90 · 05-14-2007, 03:54 PM

haha tight.

Professor///M · 05-14-2007, 04:07 PM

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Sorry this might be annoying to bring up on the forums, but i would appreciate it if you guys had some input.

So, I broke up with my girlfriend and it has been 2-3 months now. I was fine after I broke up with her. Than after a week past I felt emotional leaving everything, but i didn't want to talk to her at that time; I just wanted some time before I talk to her. I was giving it time as the days go by and I hear that she was seeing another girl. She was bi before I met her and she told me that she wasn't, after I met her. So, this got me heated. I felt angry about the fact shes seeing a person so soon. It shocked me and made me feel vulnerable. Knowing this i felt a increase in anger covering my emotional caring feels for her. As days and weeks go by, the other night on the way to school, I hear from a friend that my ex was going out with my friend that she met through me from a bmw meet when we were together. From right there, i was collapsing. i was in shock, angry. i thought how can she do that and be so cold hearted and how can my friend do that to me.
It tore me up even more when I went on to my ex's facebook(web page) and i saw all this sweet talking... i just broke down. my anger was overfilled by my sorrow. and started having thoughts about all the time i had with her and now its been taken away by this other guy called "a friend." i haven't talked to them yet. it's like i want to talk to them but i really don't its a good idea. i really want to tell them both off and throw a couple of swings, but on the other hand i want to kepp things mature and go on.
And also this "friend" of mine started talking to me a lot more often and got on my ass after bimmerfest. and now i know why.

How can girls be so fucked up.
i need some input.

You're dwelling, you need to move on.

If you can't move on, you need to talk to a psychologist or psychiatrist.

Seriously, a BJ could really turn things around for you. Get back on the horse, stop dwelling on the past.

If you are really compelled to beat someone up, tell them both off, and start swinging, I really would have your head examined ASAP.

These are not "normal" feelings, and you need to discuss it with a professional.

ATG · 05-14-2007, 04:40 PM

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Originally Posted by PAMidge

Seriously, a BJ could really turn things around for you.

What he said. use a professional if necesary.

Johnny Lin · 05-14-2007, 04:41 PM

If it is a ex, I think you should just let go of it. It will make you feels better and better. Why you are so angry, she will not come back or feel sorry for you. So, be happy and let go with it. There is alwz a better person for you to get. Good Luck!

ehhhwik · 05-14-2007, 04:45 PM

just forget about it man, find a new girl, have lots and lots of sex, and it will all be an easier pill to swallow

schneid4323 · 05-14-2007, 05:53 PM

Gunz R Fun!

longtran · 05-14-2007, 06:08 PM

date her sister?

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18LLC · 05-14-2007, 06:12 PM

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date her sister?

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no, should date the girl that she seeing now.

05-14-2007, 01:43 PM	#1
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ATG Major 68 Rep 1,058 Posts Drives: f30 328 xdrive, e90 335i gone Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Eastside iTrader: (0) Garage List 2013 BMW 328i xdrive [0.00] 2007 e90 335i [0.00]	Just try to keep your mind off this thing somehow. Get busy!! Find new hobby. Try skydiving. I don't know, something ... It's hard to believe now, but a year from now you will be remembering all of this like a bad dream. The key is to move on, don't dwell on the past -- it's gone.
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05-14-2007, 02:13 PM	#4
scottwww Brigadier General 536 Rep 4,760 Posts Drives: 07 BMW 335i, 15 Infiniti Q60S Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: USA iTrader: (0)	After you reeled that fish in, it didn't measure up, so you threw it back in the lake. Since then, somebody else who was fishing reeled it in. He hasn't decided whether to throw it back or not. Let it go! If you're still fishing, then use the right bait and don't sweat the small stuff. __________________ 2007 BMW 335i E92, Montego Blue on Cream Beige, MT, ZSP, ZPP, CA, PDC, CWP and Style 188 for winter
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txusa03 Major General 550 Rep 6,563 Posts Drives: TS330iPPSP6MT Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Planet Earth iTrader: (3)	that is why there is no such thing as friends. How many time do I have to preach to ya'll this message. __________________ under construction!
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NaTuReB0Y Powered By 36DD 337 Rep 7,369 Posts Drives: 2006 E90 Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Inland Empire iTrader: (12)	let me get this straight....... 1. you dumped her...... 2. she hooked up with a chick 3. then she hooked up with a "friend" of yours she reminded me of "MJ" from Spiderman..........freakin' SLUT! that slut went through 10 different guys in 3 movies.............. WALK AWAY not worth crying about it......... __________________ 2006 E90 330i Jet Black \| 20" WORK VS-XX \| FK452 \| H&R Sport on Koni Yellow \| REMUS QUAD
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05-14-2007, 03:10 PM	#11
Max_! First Lieutenant 3 Rep 350 Posts Drives: E91 Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Europe iTrader: (0)	> I hear that she was seeing another girl I'll be in my bunk...
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Fartpimpson Colonel 294 Rep 2,414 Posts Drives: E92 335i Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Alhambra, CA iTrader: (0) Garage List 2007 E92 335i [0.00]	I am sure your bimmer would never do this to you. So you should know where to spend your time and focus.
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ChadE Major 110 Rep 1,426 Posts Drives: 2008 328i Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Davidson NC iTrader: (0)	I didnt read the whole thing but from now on when you start a thread saying "ex girlfriend" be sure and put with it "no pics" so i dont click on it. I was hoping for some revenge pics. __________________ "When you are passionate, you always have your destination in sight and you are not distracted by obstacles. Because you love what you are pursuing, things like rejection and setbacks will not hinder you in your pursuit. You believe that nothing can stop you!" - Coach K
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Johnny Lin Lieutenant General 833 Rep 11,307 Posts Drives: AW E92 M3 Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Bellevue, WA iTrader: (42)	If it is a ex, I think you should just let go of it. It will make you feels better and better. Why you are so angry, she will not come back or feel sorry for you. So, be happy and let go with it. There is alwz a better person for you to get. Good Luck!
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ehhhwik Brigadier General 114 Rep 3,431 Posts Drives: 09' BMW 335d, 07' BMW E92 328i Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Vancouver, BC iTrader: (5)	just forget about it man, find a new girl, have lots and lots of sex, and it will all be an easier pill to swallow __________________ Current: 09' E90 335d - Titanium Silver/Black Leatherette/Sports Package/6AT Paddle Shift/USB Integration/19" Staggered Breyton GT Gloss Black Retired: 07' E92 328i (Jet Black)
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schneid4323 Banned 330 Rep 1,134 Posts Drives: 335i, M6 Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Dallas TX iTrader: (0)	Gunz R Fun!
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05-14-2007, 06:08 PM	#21
longtran Lieutenant General 1433 Rep 16,628 Posts Drives: E90 M3 Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: CA iTrader: (105) Garage List 2006 325i [0.00]	date her sister? :
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