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I think zx10guy has the right idea. Search out a solid investment property you two would never live in no matter what and see how a business partnership works out. Is she gonna be your partner on paper or for real when the enevetable issues of property ownership smack you in the back of your head. After all marriage is 98% business and 2% sublime everlasting euphoria with your soulmate!
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I recently bought a house with my SO about a year ago. We'd been dating for 2 years at that point and had lived together in an apartment for 6 mos. previously. Make sure it's something you really want to do. Like others have said you get to see your SO at their worst/most annoying and it can be tough. That being said we couldn't be happier now, took her alot longer than me to consider it "home"(she came from a bad environment with parents that were hostile towards each other for 10+ years so she didn't have a great benchmark). You'll know in your gut if it's the right thing to do. Always trust your intuition.
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Nothing is set in stone... Not trying to sound like a dick but are you nuts? Lol no girl is ever getting a hold of my money unless we get married. Last edited by natedog7700; 05-24-2016 at 11:13 AM.. |
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I commented earlier but this is just fascinating that one would even consider this. I'll have to keep following this thread. The dynamics of living together that come into play, etc, things change, blah, blah. So many variables.....risk heat map is upper right quadrant for sure.
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i don't get this. you aren't even sure of your job situation yet and you want to commit to buying a house with a girl friend?
I'd rather buy the house with a homie, then split the profit and buy a new place when you are both ready to move out.
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You have already committed to buying a new house with this girl you just met, probably next week, and are also probably losing your job? Jesus man! You are crazy.
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Maybe make sure she doesn't produce alien babies first. Could you imagine? An entire house full of alien babies and you're not even married? Who's going to clean up that mess? Not your girlfriend, that's for sure.
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Yea, fuggin alien babies, man (https://www.google.com/search?q=alien+baby&tbm=isch).
So no... well, maybe yes, I guess they can be ugly so IDK! That shit can get out of hand. Definitely, not for girlfriend mortgages.
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$25k wedding? That's cheap as hell.
Aren't you Asian op? My original budget was $100k LOL
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That's assuming you're going to make a profit from selling the house...after all the stuff as a seller you would be expected to cover.
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