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Originally Posted by 2000cs
When I met my now wife, I was an executive. Lots of attractive potentials at work, but I didn’t dare date any of them because of (1) risk of harassment claim even if unfounded, and (2) if the relationship got serious one of us would have to quit the company, and that would have been her (lower income than mine), so we would have to get very serious very fast. Just too much risk.
Newish to the area so didn’t know a lot of people locally. Didn’t think I’d meet someone lasting at a bar, and not really a bar hopper myself. Some friends set me up with dates, pfft. Eventually got on eHarmony, which was free or inexpensive (I don’t recall, it’s been 11 years). Met my wife there.
My sister used Match after her divorce and met her husband there.
Not for everyone, but I had a good experience. I can see using something like the OP mentioned if only to weed out the non-serious, but that price also might weed out some wonderful people who won’t or can’t pay that price.
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thanks, sounds like you understand my situation. I am an established professional, not looking to play games and or put up with the nonsense of online dating.
Maybe I'll give match a try. I was on eharm for a little and it was a total waste of time.
I'd gladly pay a professional to assist ..thus the topic of this thread