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people getting bored in their marriages just shows me they are not happy with themselves and need attention to be happy.
There are things we can do to keep things LESS boring and fresher but absolutely no way can you be with someone 10, 15, 20, 40 years and not lose that spark like you are first dating. it's absolutely impossible. Get a hobby, enjoy your family, be happy with what you have. I don't get it, what did you expect?? |
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I touched on that, a spark well lit yes, but not THE spark that got it rolling. It's impossible, we are people, we get used to things and you get a reality check with financial pressures and children that you don't have when young and dating.
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09-20-2018, 02:57 PM | #579 |
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A lot of the thrill is in the chase and the "oh wow she likes me" ... that's never gonna happen again, ever, 'cos you've got them.
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I get bored after a couple dates, which I suppose is natural for my age. But life is not all fun and games and that includes dating. |
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Don't get me wrong the Seattle area is objectively a great place to live, especially if you are in the IT field. But something about B.C. just makes me feel amazing as soon as I cross that border. |
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at times it makes me feel like shit when i realize this but it really gets boring once I know I "got" them |
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Y’all must just be meeting boring ass women. Getting bored after years is normal. Getting bored after a couple dates means you probably just aren’t a good match.
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Isn't there an 11 year old thread somewhere else you should go and bring back? Stop trolling me and e90 man. |
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I don't know how old you are, but at my age, I am tired of the chase. I don't jump through hoops. |
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I'd say they are just meeting the wrong people if they are getting bored. If you are bored with the person after a few dates you truly aren't attracted to them. I came home yesterday after work to a surprise nerf gun war. We constantly prank each other. You want someone who keeps life interesting.
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Such that she wants to get you back and then plans something for you. Human nature and all. I guess what I'm saying is make sure you are doing (repeatedly) what you would like to receive back. It isn't a guarantee that it will happen, but I do think it increases the likelihood of it happening - whatever it is. |
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