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Process engineer in thermoplastic manufacturing. Not what I figured I'd be doing when I was 19. The wife is a veterinarian and owns her own clinic, she makes 2 1/2 times what I do. If I had followed my dream I'd have a job shooting things that blow up by day after a night of drinking and getting my lance waxed. One can only dream.
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Pretty common major for medical fields...my dad is an MD and he majored in Chem...as did my future MD brother Me on the other hand? I dropped out of the accelerated BA+JD program I was in midway through my Sophomore year. Worked the front desk at a shitty Ramada near campus on the graveyard shift for $9 an hour....worked my way up through various roles at better hotels over a decade or so and now I likely make quite a bit more than I would have as a lawyer....go figure...life is weird.
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I’ve spoken to a general group of doctors in various fields and it’s shocked me that even though they make good money, years after they graduated, they’re still in debt. Do you regret becoming a dentist? Did it not live up to your expectations? Is it a field that’s become concentrated due to many people becoming dentist? What do you recommend I do? |
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| 01-16-2026, 12:20 AM | #51 | |
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Best decision I ever made. At the time the tire business provided enough income for basic expenses, plus I had a lot of savings, however in that time through my connections and me just putting myself out there and taking on projects I may not have taken when I was working, I got introduced to some people and we started a new business. That couldn't have come at a better time because then covid came along and killed the tire business. However the new business had way surpassed anything the tire business ever did. Still doing that now and I make waaaaay more than I ever could have at a job in my industry. Fortunately I've saved enough that I should be good when AI takes over. |
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| 01-16-2026, 10:35 AM | #53 |
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I regret it 100% and so does my wife. And a few of my close dentist friends feel the same way. The problem now is I have zero experience in anything else. Maybe I can get a job as a greeter at Walmart.
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| 01-16-2026, 10:37 AM | #54 |
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Lets also keep in mind that in Canada you can be/are waiting several months for a basic appointment for all those higher taxes you are paying
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I love his perspective on life. With that said, I don't necessarily agree with all of what you said. Saving some money early in your 20s and doing that through your entire career, especially in something like a Roth IRA and taking advantage of at least the 401K match at your job, will give you a MASSIVE step ahead in achieving financial independence. I'm not saying don't have fun, but don't blow it all on silly crap all the time. Some people like yourself can succeed very well with living the YOLO lifestyle, but for the vast majority, that is not the case. I've learned that mapping out goals isn't ideal and it can slow you down. Set a goal and seize opportunities as they present themselves and step outside your comfort zone occasionally when those opportunities present themselves. In some cases, the goal evolves and becomes better and perhaps different than you originally thought it would be.
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I'm an environmental consultant. I've been doing the job since 1998 and slowly worked my way up the ladder. I work in mergers and acquisitions and I'm basically a glorified home inspector. My clients hire me to evaluate the environmental risks of acquiring a business and affixing a dollar figure to it to knock down the purchase price. The deals may range from $5M to $500M and may include one to 100+ sites all throughout the world. I work with every major company you can probably think of including the big dogs like Apple, Google, Amazon, Samsung, BMW, etc. I evaluate the company's compliance with various environmental rules and regulations, known or suspected contamination on the site(s), and legacy issues like asbestos and other carcinogenic chemicals formerly (or currently) used in products manufactured by the company that could come back and bite them with huge lawsuits. I work hand in hand with private equity companies, attorneys, insurers, e environmental regulatory agencies.
It's an interesting job for sure. My degree was in environmental science, a very general degree. Most people that got this degree became park rangers, went to Sierra Club, and the like. I wanted to make money. I got lucky and found an internship my last semester in college and that was that. Most people I work with have chemistry, biology, human health, or geology degrees or engineering degrees like chemical engineering. I've learned that the people that make the most money are those holding the money: The private equity guys. Want to make a ton of money? Go into corporate or personnel finance of some type. All my friends that are in this business line do WAY better than me. Sounds boring as hell though. I also fired my financial advisor at Morgan Stanley 10+ years ago as well and started managing things myself. Best financial decision ever. Nice guy, but far from worth the price in fees. Those guys do so little for what they are paid. Right up there with realtors, IMO. Again, though. People that touch and handle the money make big money.
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I'm in health care - was lucky that I did state schools and had some Army money from active service and help from my pop. Finished med school w/ no debt and a net worth of 5k. If I hadn't had that (army money and parent help) - I'd have done some service related programs whereby they pay for school and you give them back service time (air force, navy, army, etc). Looked hard at Navy flight surgery program.
For the OP - it's about life choices. Save and live cheap as early as you can. Avoid debt. What car do you have at 23YO? It says unemployed? How do you pay for school now? Living expenses? While I didn't work hard, I pretty much always had some type of job all the way through school/undergrad/grad, etc. Good luck! |
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| 01-16-2026, 02:00 PM | #59 |
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Anesthesiologist here. Medicine costs a considerable sum to go into in the US and . If you don't manage to get into a well compensated subspecialty it's not really financially sound to do this as much as we're needed IMO. I feel lucky to do and enjoy what I do, but I would discourage anyone from following my footsteps unless they have subsidies of some sort.
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Basically what I’ve learned so far from y’all is, no matter what my profession is. I should be saving my money young. And from the medical professions, it seems the profession doesn’t live up to its name, being in a great amount of debt and business keeps changing. I always planned to specialize in something and knew it would take me 8-10 years to complete this goal. I’m already halfway done, so will see what changes in this dental field.
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Money is important, and saving is important, but like most things in life the extreme end of the question is rarely the best answer. While you should certainly save and be mindful of the future, I also think that you should be mindful of the present and enjoy life. I spent 20ish years driving "sensible" cars and frankly, I kind of regret it. I'm not saying I should've gone out and bought cars way above my means, but something fun would've been nice too. Those years are gone now, I'll never get them back, and I could've enjoyed them more than I did; this applies to other things like travel, etc. You're going to unfortunately learn this more and more the older you get, but life is a total crapshoot – none of us have any idea how long we're going to be here. I've had several friends that went far too young due to brain cancer, car accidents, falling injuries, etc. And I know people now, in what should be the prime of their lives, getting cancer, Parkinsons, ALS, and more. It's depressing and reminds you how those of us that are healthy and alive are only that way oftentimes due to luck more than anything else. So I would say that while you absolutely need to be mindful of the future and plan for it, don't let it blind you to the present either. Strike a sensible balance between the two and enjoy life both in your early years and in your later years. Because who knows how many years you have to begin with? Sorry if this is overly maudlin or whatever – I think it's just an important perspective to at least consider. After all, as they say, you can't take it with you. |
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Now yes, I really should save money for the future and that’s what I’ve been doing lately, but of course I’m going to try and enjoy as much of my youth as I can before it’s to late. |
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It's a bit less about how much you make but rather making intelligent financial decisions. I've never had a 6-figure salary but have been able to have nice cars (over 40 & counting), nice homes (6 and counting), been able to travel. I enjoy concerts & have seen over 210 separate artists live, and much more.
I also married wealthy, lol - j/k. My wife has worked her way up in her profession and now does very well. She's also built a solid reputation where companies reach out trying to recruit her regularly. I'm a college professor & contrary to what the public believes, we don't make a lot of $. I could actually make more teaching at my kids' high school than I do working at one of the top universities in the country. My wife works in neurovascular medical device sales. |
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