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02-22-2016, 01:28 AM | #67 |
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I was gonna ask what car you drive and to get into the car hobby whether that's tracking or modding because you will quickly get addicted and become a loser like myself and 1MOREMOD and get no girls but I clicked on your profile and this was your FIRST POST?!?!
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Times your best friend from here on out.
Keep busy. Trust me, you will miss her at first. It's going to get worse before it gets better. But you'll come out better for it. Delete all fb/IG/sc/twitter while you pick yourself up. Avoid looking at her. And over time- it'll get easier. Remember, You deserve better.
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02-22-2016, 04:24 AM | #69 | |
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start hitting the gym or join a some type of club....focus on you.
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02-22-2016, 06:30 AM | #70 |
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I can answer this one! I was with mine ex for 5 years, split Dec 30th or something like that.
So, I loved her, thought we'd get married, yada yada, was upset for probably the better part of most January, now I'm starting to not give a shit less. Stop putting her on a pedestal, she's only a person. She cheated, that's not cool dude. Other girls in the world, and they all like to have sex and stuff. Think of the money you'll save now that you can spend on yourself. I'm now buying a surplus of weaponry, ammunition, vacations, dinners, getting back in the gym, bicycling, co-ed softball league, spending more time with real friends that actually care, meeting new women that aren't assholes..., buck up buck-a-roo. You had a life before her, you have a life after. |
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02-22-2016, 06:37 AM | #72 | |
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In all seriousness, you seem like a good guy. These days, lots of women are unfortunately taking advantage of the good guys that are left, and it seems like she has a serious problem with confrontation or keeping her legs closed, for that matter. Unless she is a chronic consumer of penis (which is a huge possibility), then there is really no benefit to you sticking around. My longest relationship was 3.5 years, and it was probably the hardest thing I've ever done (next to fucking a 49 year old at age 24, which was awesome). Distract yourself with good alcohol, good company, success, occasional female distractions, and the rest will follow.
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02-22-2016, 07:37 AM | #73 |
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02-22-2016, 07:54 AM | #74 | |
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Way back when, when I was single, my dad told me to date 3-4 girls at the same time. I thought he was crazy but I tried it. It got very hectic and seriously had to lie at times about what I was doing at a particular time...but it does help a person to meet the right one so to speak...good luck! |
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02-22-2016, 08:47 AM | #78 |
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Break ups suck, no way around that. Just gotta move on with life. Don't follow your ex on instagram, twitter, facebook, etc. Her post will just bring up memories or piss you off.
You live in DC, their are tons of places to have fun as a single guy. Plus tons of car meets every week where you can go out and meet new people. Don't go looking for a girl, just go have fun and let life happen.
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02-22-2016, 08:48 AM | #79 |
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02-22-2016, 09:07 AM | #81 | |
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You've been used dude. Boy oh boy! You're what society calls a SIMP. This girl clearly doesn't give a fuck about you. You're her go-to-man, her side dude, her cover-up. You have to study the female nature. She enjoys sex. Some Women are like men too, they enjoy having sex with variety of people. It's just that society shames Women who sleep around, they're called sluts and whores and other stuff. So what she's doing is using you as her Boyfriend cover up so she doesn't look like a whore. Women do that. Women will get a boyfriend/husband just so that people will think they're 'normal' or 'faithful'. Then when no one is aware, they'll sleep around. You mentioned that she sleeps with other dudes when you two argue... i'm willing to bet that she's the one who creates these arguments so she can go out and get more dicking. Dude you're being used like a rag doll. Have some respect for yourself and dumb this shitty whore as fast as possible. She knows you're weak and she's using your weakness to get what she wants. Man the fuck-up and tell the slut to kick rocks. What do you actually 'love' in her? Her looks? Her good pussy? her company? Man fuck that whore. She clearly doesn't love you. Hope you get better and get over this soon. Best of luck to you.
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But yeah, agreed.
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I guess it's just hard to let someone who's been there with you through a lot of shit go easily. But things are feeling a lot better, trying to stay away from my phone when possible. I spoke with her 2 days after we broke up, and she said, "I'm having such a good time going on dates!" the day after she went on a date with a dude she monkey-branched off of me from. blocked that beetch on social media, phone, etc. Not a single contact since then, no plan on it in the future. like I said, got a date coming up on Wednesday [average looking chick], but hope I can really focus. I know it gets worse before it gets better...man, it is horrible, though. |
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02-22-2016, 09:51 AM | #86 |
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What Sara mean to say was..."Hypocrisy much"? Double standards are just that, so please...don't be the idiot we know you aren't.
I'm going to assume that in polite conversation, your wife and friends would understand the sarcastic streak that I missed here. |
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What you just went through with the cheating girl will make you such a better person. You're already on the right track by moving on and already finding a date. One hint i have to give you is to never ever talk about the cheating girl with your next date.
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Figured it was about time lol In any case, Hope the OP gets to move on, always tough when you get your heart involved and trampled, Been there done that, Now I only get my penis involved, You live, you learn, you get beat, you get up, have a cigarette or 2 and move forward Cheating is not cool from either sex, it is the worse shit ever, I never cheat, never will If you cheat for whatever reason, asides from being cheated on, you are a scumbag and a pussy. |
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