Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

[upstatedoc]

Originally Posted by Sara

When you're vibing with someone AS A FRIEND

Sara, you have no "friends" that are male unless they're gay. They all want in your pants. except the gay guy. I can count on one finger the number of females I consider a "friend" that I don't want to nail. Problem is, I can't be sure she feels the same way but I have made it crystal clear I am not interested

[ramman434]

I'm trying to catch up on everything I missed this weekend, as this thread is always entertaining. Hopefully Sara's "Bitch Mode" also comes with a "story mode". I'll get some more popcorn.

Sidenote: I got my 1st Pfizer on Thurs. My shoulder got sore about 2 hours later (15:00). Just massaged it some, and put a massage gun on it right before bed. Was fine by 9am Friday

[cmyx6go]

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

Sometimes women like the drama, so they do things to invite drama into the picture. It's a cycle. Nobody is truly stupid in the game. It's all deliberate…..on both sides.

Are you insinuating that Sara causes her own drama? LOL?

[Sara]

Originally Posted by cmyx6go

Are you insinuating that Sara causes her own drama? LOL?

I'm like a beacon for it. This time it wasn't my fault. fiveohwblow

[upstatedoc]

Originally Posted by Sara

I dont want a relationship. He fucked up what could have been a great thing. I just want friends with benefits

Sedan_Clan gimme some of your popcorn

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by cmyx6go

Are you insinuating that Sara causes her own drama? LOL?

I mean……

….we create the life we want by the actions we take and the decisions we make.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

I mean……

….we create the life we want by the actions we take and the decisions we make.

This time it wasn't my fault.

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by Sara

This time it wasn't my fault.

I'm sure fiveohwblow will provide his perspective being that he's in the know.

[fiveohwblow]

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

I'm sure fiveohwblow will provide his perspective being that he's in the know.

Sworn to secrecy and I'm a man of my word, that said, with the gained perspective I certainly see Sara's position and can say without more detail I would feel a similar way.

[nyalpine90]

Originally Posted by Sara

This time it wasn't my fault.

u starting to sound like Shaggy

[Sara]

Originally Posted by fiveohwblow

Sworn to secrecy and I'm a man of my word, that said, with the gained perspective I certainly see Sara's position and can say without more detail I would feel a similar way.

Thank you

[Sara]

Originally Posted by nyalpine90

u starting to sound like Shaggy

At least Shaggy was shagging

[M5Rick]

Oh my..it wasn't because I agreed with someone that no one's getting laid..me and my big mouth..I take it back.

[Tambohamilton]

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

Well…..

How much of that is left?

[shoei]

Originally Posted by ASBSECU E93

Things are well. Haven't been on here much, just check in from time to time to make sure shoei is still slow.

Yea - we found a larger farm that is the 'retirement' property that can also be a family compound if/when our parents and the brother in law come to stay for any extended period of time. We'll eventually sell the current place once I've made some updates and get everything moved.

Sounds like somebody finally building himself one of the polygamy compounds.

[ryan stewart]

Originally Posted by upstatedoc

Sara, you have no "friends" that are male unless they're gay. They all want in your pants. except the gay guy. I can count on one finger the number of females I consider a "friend" that I don't want to nail. Problem is, I can't be sure she feels the same way but I have made it crystal clear I am not interested

Dunno man, I have more than a few female friends I would not want to get into their pants. And not even 10% gay over here.

There are a few that, admittedly, at one time I would have been interested. But most were just ones who shared a common interest and we became friends with, or we had friends/family in common and got along but I was never attracted to.

And on the laid question (and the drama statement): Currently getting laid but at the expense of tolerating some drama.

[nyalpine90]

Originally Posted by Sara

At least Shaggy was shagging

so ur sayin that you are under the " no fly zone" lol
with all this pilot talk, not one has been able to land

[shoei]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

Constantly.

There have been a few close calls like the neurotic 40 year-old, the 38 year-old and the cocktail waitress...all wanting to get married. All banging hot...emphasis on banging but with a loose screws or simply BSC. That doesn't include the former body builder, pro volleyball player or lots of others.

With this one, everything is easy and just flows. That's how I know she is the right one.

Sooooooooo...do I have a bid of the first $100,000 from you? I mean...this includes a few large market, hispanic TV weather girls, as well. We all know what they look like!!

I feel like I'm in an 80's movie. "Weather girls". Is that even the appropriate PC term for them now?!

Shits starting to sound like - "this Nigerian prince has got a deal for you today!!!"

[shoei]

Originally Posted by Sara

I wasnt looking forward to my date Wednesday night, but now I am.

Fuck these guys. Bitch mode activated.

This implies that you turn that mode off.

[ryan stewart]

Originally Posted by fiveohwblow

If what they want isn’t friendship, leaving at friends is fucking it up for them. That goes both ways.

This is also true. If you met AS A DATE then the expectation is dates. I have enough friends and would just shoot my shot and move on if it misses.

If a woman matches with me on bumble or whatever and isn't feeling the dating vibe better get it out of the way immediately because dragging it out would likely make me less likely to actually entertain the idea.

But realistically anyone I just met would be moving to the back of the line of friends and we would likely have gotten bored anyway.

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

You have to sift through a lot of coal to get to the diamond. I've done my time in the coal mines. She is wonderful and amazing!! I've gotten rid of the spreadsheet and destroyed the black book. Phone numbers deleted...the whole nine yards.



I'm planning on making a tidy profit selling my collection. Bidding starts at $100,000....trust me, it's worth it!!

Originally Posted by MKSixer

Constantly.







There have been a few close calls like the neurotic 40 year-old, the 38 year-old and the cocktail waitress...all wanting to get married. All banging hot...emphasis on banging but with a loose screws or simply BSC. That doesn't include the former body builder, pro volleyball player or lots of others.

With this one, everything is easy and just flows. That's how I know she is the right one.

Sooooooooo...do I have a bid of the first $100,000 from you? I mean...this includes a few large market, hispanic TV weather girls, as well. We all know what they look like!!

Originally Posted by shoei

I feel like I'm in an 80's movie. "Weather girls". Is that even the appropriate PC term for them now?!

Shits starting to sound like - "this Nigerian prince has got a deal for you today!!!"

I feel like not all of MK's synapses are firing at the moment. I mean, he starts out indicating the length of time he's toiled in the coal mines, finding these lumps of coal, describing them as weather girls, cocktail waitresses, etc and how crazy they are - AND THEN, he suddenly switches over to trying to market these lumps of coal for the astronomical price of $100K, thinking there will be extreme interest after the glowing endorsements he started out with?

Then too, there is the point that whoever took him up on that would be following the same path he took, doing the same thing he did, but expecting different results. And I think Albert Einstein had something to say about that kind of individual, just having trouble putting my finger on it at the moment...

[ASBSECU E93]

Lol - feels like I never left this chat….