Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

[shoei]

Originally Posted by heitzke

Just dropping by to call out that i'm SO glad I stopped dating much younger women and pivoting to more "age appropriate". I'm only 35 still, but immaturity was really weighing on me in dating.

Finally got hooked up with a good one - has their own car(s), house, job, life together. Totally 1000% unexpected as it happens since I basically just became single again, but so it goes.

Stopped thinking with the lil brain, ehh?? Congrats. Most of us never figure that out.

[Cyn-BMW]

It’s National Dog Day. He meets more women than I do!

[shoei]

Originally Posted by Sara

I said for 3 years!

I call all the women - "future ex-wife". Just refer to him as your future ex-hubby. Problem solved.

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by shoei

I call all the women - "future ex-wife". Just refer to him as your future ex-hubby. Problem solved.

I've been tempted to introduce my wife as my ex girlfriend which is technically true... she was previously a girlfriend and is no longer since she moved to wife status more than a decade ago.

But I feel the resulting domestic violence that might ensue on my person might be disturbing for those individuals to watch. So I've been holding off. But it's in the back of my mind.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Tambohamilton

Hey Cyn, what's the arrangement with your multiple ladies? I think you referred to all 3 as your girlfriends?

Years ago I went to Turkey with my girlfriend at the time and her sister. Both in their 20s, tall, blonde, athletic, horse riders... Sadly there was no FFM for me, but never mind. As we were wandering about doing our tourist thing, occasionally locals would ask me "are you Mormon?" Nope. Slightly naively I just wondered what aspect of my appearance looked Mormon and carried on. Eventually the penny dropped though, so I decided to have a laugh...
Are you Mormon?
Nope
Which one is yours? (Verbatim quote)
[I point to M]
You must come and have tea with us!
A couple of guys lead us to a carpet shop, and sit us down. I was of course always conscious of our safety, but we were still very much publicly visible etc. Some tea arrives for us all, and the couple of guys proceed to chat up S, much to her embarrassment. They eventually offered us 400 goats for her At that point we decided S had probably had enough and went on our way. We all had a good laugh out of that though!

Moral of the story? Blonde hair in Turkey is highly desirable!

Just so the collective knows their worth. I wouldn't want anyone going to market without knowing what to expect.

https://crackthequiz.com/how-many-goats-am-i-worth/

[heitzke]

Originally Posted by shoei

Stopped thinking with the lil brain, ehh?? Congrats. Most of us never figure that out.

hahaha yeah, it was awfully fun with the 21- 25yr olds for a min but damn some of those 'relationships' were insanely shallow.

[ramman434]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Just so the collective knows their worth. I wouldn't want anyone going to market without knowing what to expect.

https://crackthequiz.com/how-many-goats-am-i-worth/

I'm worth 5 goats...probably because I'm not blonde.. Ugh

[wtwo3]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Just so the collective knows their worth. I wouldn't want anyone going to market without knowing what to expect.

https://crackthequiz.com/how-many-goats-am-i-worth/

Dafuq. Guess I fall in the irrelevant age group.....

5 goats is what I got. At least I'm safe from my wife trading me in. Although I like to think she sees me as priceless when it comes to goat value.

[M5Rick]

20 goats hmm I'll think about it.

[fiveohwblow]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

I've been tempted to introduce my wife as my ex girlfriend which is technically true... she was previously a girlfriend and is no longer since she moved to wife status more than a decade ago.

But I feel the resulting domestic violence that might ensue on my person might be disturbing for those individuals to watch. So I've been holding off. But it's in the back of my mind.

If that’s all that sets off the Mrs you may have made a grave mistake.

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by fiveohwblow

If that’s all that sets off the Mrs you may have made a grave mistake.

I certainly fear I might wind up in the grave one of these days for one of the many mistakes I make. She's a relatively good sport about it though.

Doesn't laugh as much as I think she should at my antics though - I think I'm fricking hilarious.

Honestly though, she's really quite good about it. She just cares way too much about what other people think of her...whereas I do not. And am all the freer for it.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

I certainly fear I might wind up in the grave one of these days for one of the many mistakes I make. She's a relatively good sport about it though.

Doesn't laugh as much as I think she should at my antics though - I think I'm fricking hilarious.

Honestly though, she's really quite good about it. She just cares way too much about what other people think of her...whereas I do not. And am all the freer for it.

Concur. There is a special freedom that come's with just not caring about what other's think. I'm partly there. I have my days where I take shit personally, but for the most part; I don't care anymore.

[fiveohwblow]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

I certainly fear I might wind up in the grave one of these days for one of the many mistakes I make. She's a relatively good sport about it though.

Doesn't laugh as much as I think she should at my antics though - I think I'm fricking hilarious.

Honestly though, she's really quite good about it. She just cares way too much about what other people think of her...whereas I do not. And am all the freer for it.

You and me both brother, sounds like we’ve similar circumstances. Maybe the only difference is there is little to no filter with me and the wife has become numb to it

[Tambohamilton]

Originally Posted by shoei

@Tambohamilton - S must've been a knockout cuz 400 cattle is pretty fucking steep for a dowry!! Lol.

We'd be lucky to get a chicken foot for Dang3r

Yep. I didn't ask for an appraisal on M... Maybe I should have

[Tambohamilton]

Originally Posted by Cyn-BMW

I’m sorry to hear that.

No religion allowed here. I’m going straight to hell! No drugs allowed in the house. They can come and go and do as they please, as can I.

Neat.

Feel free to veto/ignore these questions...
Do they stick around long?
How do they get along with each other?

[Cyn-BMW]

Originally Posted by Tambohamilton

Neat.

Feel free to veto/ignore these questions...
Do they stick around long?
How do they get along with each other?

Long, and I don’t deal with people that can’t get along with other people. These aren’t stupid twits. They all have careers and things going on. And, some of it involves being away for a while. It’s rare that we are all together. But, we will be tonight at the beach house. Then I go to Ventura, Monday morning for surgery. So, I maybe on the downlow for a week or two.

[ASAP]

I always have something to contribute to this thread, I just never do lol...

Tonight was another waste of time. So I met this chick on Hinge and she agrees to meet up.

First, she said she is coming from a work dinner... so she is already late. Shows up, doesn't have a single drink and was literally yawning the entire time because she said she wakes up at 5. So we start the convo and of course bam... me me me and my work, i am so busy, i like to travel... holy faq... are they all the same?

I literally asked for the check, paid for my $8 Vodka and Tonic and said thanks and peaced out lol... where are the normal women from the 1990s?

[shoei]

Originally Posted by ASAP

I always have something to contribute to this thread, I just never do lol...

Tonight was another waste of time. So I met this chick on Hinge and she agrees to meet up.

First, she said she is coming from a work dinner... so she is already late. Shows up, doesn't have a single drink and was literally yawning the entire time because she said she wakes up at 5. So we start the convo and of course bam... me me me and my work, i am so busy, i like to travel... holy faq... are they all the same?

I literally asked for the check, paid for my $8 Vodka and Tonic and said thanks and peaced out lol... where are the normal women from the 1990s?

Married or too old.

[ASAP]

Originally Posted by shoei

Married or too old.

I think is it 100% becoming a qty game... you literally need to meet as many women as possible and hope for quality, there is no other way.

[shoei]

Originally Posted by ASAP

I think is it 100% becoming a qty game... you literally need to meet as many women as possible and hope for quality, there is no other way.

Nah I think the harder you look the more challenging it becomes. I never pursue or hunt, it just happens.

I don't use dating apps either, just venture out. I've met some women at the beach while riding the bike or walking. I'll strike up convo or say something if I notice a cute girl at the supermarket buying things that I enjoy - I know there's at least some common ground already.

Now, what I DO know for certain is, I can't meet any more women named "Jen" or "Jennifer". I can't keep up anymore.

[ASAP]

Originally Posted by shoei

Nah I think the harder you look the more challenging it becomes. I never pursue or hunt, it just happens.

I don't use dating apps either, just venture out. I've met some women at the beach while riding the bike or walking. I'll strike up convo or say something if I notice a cute girl at the supermarket buying things that I enjoy - I know there's at least some common ground already.

Now, what I DO know for certain is, I can't meet any more women named "Jen" or "Jennifer". I can't keep up anymore.

lmao... i am curious about Jen country gal

[shoei]

Originally Posted by ASAP

lmao... i am curious about Jen country gal

Just as the name suggests, lol. She was a cute female on vacation from Texas lol.

We were about as polar opposite as you can get but she was sweet and I still enjoy her accent lol. "Hey y'aaaaal!!"