Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by Sara

No, no sweetheart. I didn't mean that A is going actually kill me, I meant that he is going to be a contributing factor. Remember, cardiologist follow up appointment? They found an enlargement and I've got to keep my stress levels down. Well, those doctor's orders certainly went out the window Wednesday night. A stresses me out the most.

I'm going to partially blame the 3 margaritas and shots of Titos which seemed to have fueled the fire Wednesday night.

You're absolutely right about not showing concern. Probably best that I havent responded to anything he said last night. It shows to him, I don't care. I just don't want him to lie to me. I told him about B and that I'm letting B take me out next week and he has no right to get upset!! The pot calling the kettle black here.


Never a dull moment in my life. I just hope it doesn't contribute to an early grave!!

On addition….


….You have to consider how you look to the three (…or four?!?!) of them. I can tell you right now that if me and a few of my buddies were dating/sleeping with the same girl (…and at one point in life - when I was a part-time personal trainer at 24HR Fitness - that exact situation occurred with multiple women that I hand picked simply because I knew we could manipulate and have fun……and it was easy to corral women like cattle in that environment), we'd be having a few back door laugh sessions about her.

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by Sara

Just for the record, I'm not sleeping with anyone except A.

Got it! ….but even still, the back door conversations are happening since A has sampled the goods and had surely spread the word. B, C and D want to work their way in too (…with the blessing of A). It just doesn't make you look good at all.

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by Sara

I listened to everyone and cut the rude guy loose who treated the wait staff poorly. There's hope for me.

It's rare that women get "the secrets" from men, so I hope you continue to listen to what the guys tell you here.

[rebekahb]

Originally Posted by Sara

Just for the record, I'm not sleeping with anyone except A.

Yet

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by Sara

Gotcha. It also doesn't help that A tells me stuff about B and C. Whether he's being truthful or not, I'm not sure at this point. He could just be saying that to me so I stay away from them and he has me all to himself or, he could be telling the truth. Ugh.

Fuck it. It's a long weekend and I'm spending it disconnected from everyone and with my ponies. They are my only stress reliever at the moment.

It's both. He let the kitty cat out of the hat and now the boys want to play. Once you put the image in their heads, the prey drive kicks in and there's no stopping it. It's for that reason that me and the fellas don't share those details - nor the scantily clad photos - about the girl(s) we actually like (…which says something about how A saw/sees you).

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by rebekahb

Yet

PFFT!! I just spit coffee.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by rebekahb

Yet

We'll see! And it wouldn't matter if I was.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

It's for that reason that me and the fellas don't share those details - nor the scantily clad photos - about the girl(s) we actually like (…which says something about how A saw/sees you).

I feel like this thread has turned into the Bible for Women of how men operate.

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by Sara

We'll see! And it wouldn't matter if I was.

Dignity Sara. Dignity! There's plenty of dick out there and no need to become "that girl." Don't hump friends!!!! You'll never be respected……ever.

Originally Posted by King Rudi

I feel like this thread has turned into the Bible for Women of how men operate.

Yeah! If we keep talking/typing they'll have a handy reference guide.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

Dignity Sara. Dignity! There's plenty of dick out there and no need to become "that girl." Don't hump friends!!!! You'll never be respected……ever.



Yeah! If we keep talking/typing they'll have a handy reference guide.

Ha! I go back again today to the cardiologist. My results today are going to determine my dignity at this point. I may just have a YOLO mindset after this afternoon. I just don't care anymore. We'll see.

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by Sara

Ha! I go back again today to the cardiologist. My results today are going to determine my dignity at this point. I may just have a YOLO mindset after this afternoon. I just don't care anymore. We'll see.

Sweet! I need my $50 and pizza today.

#SedanClanWinsTheBet

[Sara]

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

Sweet! I need my $50 and pizza today.

#SedanClanWinsTheBet

haha, what was the bet? I haven't done anything!

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by Sara

haha, what was the bet? I haven't done anything!

Essentially what you typed……


….that despite the prose, you'll decide to do it anyway and disregard the warnings/suggestions due to a myriad of reasons.

I need my pizza. Have at it Sara! Provide us all of the juicy details too.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

Essentially what you typed……


….that despite the prose, you'll decide to do it anyway and disregard the warnings/suggestions due to a myriad of reasons.

I need my pizza. Have at it Sara! Provide us all of the juicy details too.

No, no. I haven't made any decision. Have you not realized how undecisive I am? I may take this long weekend with my ponies and reassess and come back with a completely different mindset on Tuesday. My horses seem to knock sense into me when I'm with them.

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by Sara

No, no. I haven't made any decision. Have you not realized how undecisive I am? I may take this long weekend with my ponies and reassess and come back with a completely different mindset on Tuesday. My horses seem to knock sense into me when I'm with them.

I see that. I'm all for matters of the heart (…or penis….or vagina), but this is one impulse that I urge you not to indulge.

If time with your horses has such a seemingly profound and powerful effect on your decision making abilities, I'm prescribing MORE time with them before any dalliance you're considering.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

I see that. I'm all for matters of the heart (…or penis….or vagina), but this is one impulse that I urge you not to indulge.

If time with your horses has such a seemingly profound and powerful effect on your decision making abilities, I'm prescribing MORE time with them before any dalliance you're considering.

If you want a stable relationship, get a horse

No, but really they have such a calming effect on me. I love them. Except when Blackie throws me and gives me concussions lol.

[Tommy-G]

Originally Posted by Sara;

If you want a stable relationship, get a horse

No, but really they have such a calming effect on me. I love them. Except when Blackie throws me and gives me concussions lol.

I want a video of you asking Blackie for relationship advice while riding through the woods...that would be a Youtube hit

[Sara]

Originally Posted by TommyG-inFlaNow

I want a video of you asking Blackie for relationship advice while riding through the woods...that would be a Youtube hit

I'll see what I can do. If I knew how to upload videos on here, wouldn't that be entertaining?

[Tommy-G]

Originally Posted by Sara;

I'll see what I can do. If I knew how to upload videos on here, wouldn't that be entertaining?

Send them to me and I would happily entertain the masses on your behalf!!!

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

Dignity Sara. Dignity! There's plenty of dick out there and no need to become "that girl." Don't hump friends!!!! You'll never be respected……ever.



Yeah! If we keep talking/typing they'll have a handy reference guide.

I guess the only question is what the motives are. If you are just looking for a good time and to walk away at the end of the day and forget it all, then have at it. If you are hopeful to get to know one of them (or more) better, and potentially have a relationship or friendship this will get very messy and you will instead walk away with none of the above. Just like Sedan_Clan described, you will end up with the respect of none of them.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by TommyG-inFlaNow

Send them to me and I would happily entertain the masses on your behalf!!!

Haha, okay. I'll see if my girls cooperate this weekend to get a good video.

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by Sara

If you want a stable relationship, get a horse

No, but really they have such a calming effect on me. I love them. Except when Blackie throws me and gives me concussions lol.

The black ones can be a wild ride.